Many programs have been initiated by
Associates of Vietnam Veterans of America (AVVA) in support of
VVA, AVVA, and within local communities. This year's Remembrance
Ceremony was spearheaded by AVVA Region 7 Director Patsy Varnell
from Oklahoma.
During a visit to Tucson in
March, she remembered a ceremony that is part of the culture of
the Southwest, and she saw an opportunity to incorporate this
special program into the VVA Leadership Conference. Many Native
Americans, Hispanics, and Anglo Southwesterners use "Luminaria"
to remember and honor people. A small paper bag is weighted with
sand, and a lighted candle is placed inside. The luminaria are
put in a circle to remember loved ones. Varnell would like to
have the ceremony incorporated into national, state, and chapter
events.
"Although the ceremony is a
special time for remembrance," Varnell said, "it doesn't stop.
Remembrance is perpetual." After the ceremony, participants were
encouraged to take their luminaria with them. Due to the drought
and the fear of fires, glow sticks were substituted for candles.
They remained lit for hours after the ceremony.
Ohio State Council Vice President
James Kuschel introduced his close friends who led the ceremony,
David and Shirley Tsosie. They became friends in Cleveland. When
Tsosie retired, he was called back to the old ways.
Drafted at 15, Tsosie received
two Purple Hearts and the Silver Star while serving in Korea. "I
was to parachute over enemy lines but something happened. I
ended up on the front line in a half-track running over fallen
warriors."
"As I looked up, eye contact was
made with an enemy soldier, who slit my throat."
The soldier died; Tsosie did not.
This wasn't his only injury. He received a total of six bullet
wounds. He was taken to a MASH unit and then sent to a hospital
for three months. Then he received a medical discharge. "I
always wondered why this all happened to me. Now I know," he
said.
His answer came in the form of
the Eagle Staff. Families of fallen warriors asked him to take
care of their warriors' eagle feathers. When Tsosie asked what
he was to do with them, their answer was simple: "You will know
when the time comes."
He told those in attendance: "It
belongs to all of you warriors. It was blessed and dedicated by
the Sioux People. Thank all of you who have been in the
service."
Afterwards, some participants
discussed this new ceremony. Kuschel said: "This is the first
time that this program was held, and it was to remember the
fallen warriors, POWs, MIAs, and other individuals, such as
those lost in the 9/11 terrorist attack." He felt that the
program brought the members of VVA and AVVA much closer.
Connie Nieciecki, Chapter 826
liaison, tried to explain her feelings, but her tears
demonstrated how she felt. She said so many individuals had been
forgotten and that this was an opportunity to remember them. She
had many family members, she explained, including
brothers-in-law, uncles, and cousins, who had made the supreme
sacrifice in service to the nation.
Walt and Val Hendricksen from New
York agreed that the ceremony was very moving and emotional.
They said that it brought unity among those present and should
be implemented within VVA chapters and state councils.
Connie Steers, treasurer of VVA
Chapter 82, Nassau County, New York, and his wife, Cherie,
listed the names of 17 chapter members and dedicated luminaria
in remembrance of them. He stated that it was a way "to remember
our loved ones"
Cornelia Nieciecki contributed to
this article.